perplexed.

it has been pretty frequent now. pple haf been asking me. "i believe EVERYBODY goes to heaven." i believe dis, i believe that. its quite a sucky feelin. u know what's right and what's wrong, but u cannot express it. u cannot stand up for ur own faith. been consulting pple abt dis topic mainly, "is it really true that EVERYBODY goes to heaven?" including monks, mediums, and etc? i know that only those who believed in Christ goes to heaven, but why don't they buy dis fact? why do they wanna defend the other religions or everybody as a whole. are Christians really like salvation army? and heaven's like a home where in the end, everybody returns. Christians are loving, kind at heart and so on [as in if we really apply all that's in the bible], but doesn't mean we don't haf our stands right? showing love doesn't mean we can be pushed around right? why whenever i try to put it across to them my concept, the nicest way possible. but pple still say "Christians so selfish wan, heaven only christians go, the rest go hell." dis sucks man! even Christians ask me the same qns! why why? why can't i be firm? feeling really defeated man.