grace.

pertaining to zing's tag,
"that He chooses to forgive and not forget..
just all the more show the beauty of His love n grace.."
coincidentally reminded me of my convo wif 2 colleagues today.

flora: will you still be friends wif your ex bf?
marisha: ya, in fact, i'm still friends wif all of them!
flora: desmond, den you leh?
des: yep, still friends wif my ex gf, but not her new bf.

marisha: ya, i think its okay. my bf cheated on me before,
and i'm still friends wif him!
flora: :O you all are such loving pple.
des: forgive man, forgive.

flora: i can forgive, but cannot forget one lor!
des: but you say you cannot be friends wif your ex,
how is that forgiving?
des: the one who truly forgives, is marisha..

flora: true true.. marisha, you're crazy lor!
marisha: yeah, its okay. just forget abt it. no point harping..
des: you're too nice alr la!
flora: ya lor! i first time hear pple can still befriend her ex lor.

what zing said was totally true,
though it might not make sense at the first instance.
but God is indeed so magnanimous, beyond our understanding!
why then, are we still begrudging small transgressions?

God's grace is indeed sufficient for us,
just that so many times
we opt to wanna haf the winning say.
that's not the most loving thing to do..