Decreasing for His purpose.

If u become a necessity to someone else's life,
u are out of God's will.
As a servant, ur primary responsibility is to be a "friend of the bridegroom".
When u see a person who is close to grasping the claims of Jesus Christ,

U know that your influence has been used in the right direction.
And when u begin to see that person in the middle of a difficult and painful struggle,
Don’t try to prevent it, but pray that his difficulties will grow ten times stronger,
Until no power on earth or in hell can hold him away from Jesus Christ.

Over and over again, we try to be amateur providences in someone else’s life.
Instead of being friends of the bridegroom, our sympathy gets in the way.
You may often have to watch God wreck a life before He saves it (Matt 10:34).